November 2010

Forrest Gump said life was like a box of chocolates. In 2010, I think he’d be more apt to say:

Life is like a bunch of blog posts–you never know the impact of you’re gonna write.


Blogging creates a platform to influence people, even people who don’t know you beyond your About page.

If you’re a blogger, I hope this list inspires you. If you’re thinking about starting a blog, I hope it convinces you to take the plunge.

7 Ways Blogging is Just Like Life

1. It’s hard. If that’s not a euphemism I don’t know what is. Nothing about life is easy. You have to wake up every day and decide that you’re going to take things in stride, putting your best foot forward. Blogging is the same way. There are days when you’re not going to want to write. There are days when you know you have something to say, but you don’t make the time to say it. Make the time. It’s worth it. We want to hear from you.

2. You’re going to have off days. If we knew which side of the bed was the wrong one, we’d probably avoid getting up on it. If we knew which blog posts were going to be absolute garbage, we probably wouldn’t write them. Unfortunately, it’s unavoidable. All you can hope to do is keep driving forward in an effort to find out what works and what doesn’t. Then, simply do the things that work.

3. What you do gets noticed… People watchers are everywhere. People notice when you help an old lady cross the street, and when you walk out of the bathroom with toilet paper on your foot. People are reading your posts and talking about them with others, for better or worse. But…

4. …but not everyone is going to comment. Just because people see you doing fantastic things doesn’t mean they are going to say something to you. Some will encourage you to keep going through their comments, but most won’t say a word. Be encouraged by the people who take the time to tell you, and don’t forget about the majority you’re impacting who aren’t saying anything.

5. You have an opportunity to make an impact every day. Each day you live and each post you write is going to affect someone’s thinking. The information you share in conversations and through posts will either integrate with their worldview or differentiate from it. It inspires critical thinking. You are filling a void no one else in this world can by doing what you do every day.

6. To keep influencing, you have to stay motivated. When things get hard, the easiest thing to do is quit. Please don’t. What you do matters. Every day you have a chance to positively or negatively affect the people around you. If you are motivated to make a difference, you will. Without the driving force of motivation, you’re going to ineveitably lose your impact. Let your impact motivate you.

7. It’s not about the stats. If you can only help one person today [or if only one person reads your blog], don’t be upset because Oprah just gave away 500 cars. Do all that you can with the platform you have. That’s all we can ask of you.

Keep blogging. Keep living your life to make a difference. People notice. We need your influence.

Moving is essential.

It’s not easy. You’re going to think about going back. But at some point, somewhere along the way, you have to say: It’s time to pull the trigger.

I’ve officially dove in head first, my friends. The pool is kind of shallow, and now my neck kind of hurts.

You see, I’ve been entertaining [or at least, attempting to entertain] the interwebs for about 15 months, and I decided it was time to ditch the diapers and put on my big boy pants.

My blog has officially moved to the more prestigious, http://jshirk.com.

While you were stuffing your face with turkey and elbowing moms fighting over $1 underwear on Black Friday, I was hustling to make this move happen just in time for the last few hours of Cyber Monday.

Here’s the way I see the over-all incredulousness of the blog increasing:

Highlights of the big move:

12% more time spent fiddling with the design
15% more whitespace [yay, minimalism!]
63% more blogging activity
73% more likelihood of generating guest posts
100% more legit in every way

For a grand total of….[carrying the one]….

263% more awesomeness all-around.

Here are the unfortunate things about the move:

  • If you Google me or my blog, my old WordPress site is going to continue coming up until I blow it up [date set for December 31, 2010, well before the Mayans are predicting the end of the world]
  • Links in all of my blogs [currently] link back to the old site, which is a bummer [but if anyone has a quick/dirty/easy way to update it so they back link to this blog, well, I promise to tweet about your greatness]
  • If you subscribe by email, you’ll need to resubscribe here: If you subscribe by RSS, by the magic of Feedburner your feed is already updated. Hooray!

Here’s what I’m committing to blogging about:

    This move means more time, more problems, and probably more headaches. It also, more importantly, means more opportunity, more room for creative genius, and more reward for the work put in.

    It’s worth it. It’s not easy, but nothing worthwhile ever is.

    The blogosphere is my oyster. I hope you’ll be here to dig in with me.

    I take things for granted all too often.

    This is my attempt at realizing how much I have to be thankful for. This is by no means an exhaustive list, but instead just a start of the nouns I’ve been so richly blessed by.

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    I’m not comfortable asking people for money. I’m especially uncomfortable when I’m offering something of little value.

    When I was growing up, I hated pushing candy bars. I hated book orders. I hated “selling” anything in fundraising form.

    I could never quite nail the approach of the sale…

    “Would you like to buy a [fill in the blank with crappy product] for only [an unreasonable price] so our school doesn’t shut down?”

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    The Big Problem With You

    November 16, 2010

    The word you got you here. You want to know about the big problem you have. It’s interesting that you thought I was talking about you specifically.

    It’s especially interesting because I am.

    The Big You Problem

    I always turn around when I hear my name. It’s a reflex I’ll never shake.
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    [This post is a transcript of a Toastmaster's Icebreaker speech I gave Wednesday, November 10, 2010. If you're a reader, scroll down. If you're a listener, press play. If you like sing alongs, press play and then scroll down. If you're about curious what I look like when I give speeches, well, that's taken care of too. I've found togas command respect.]

    My Life According to Water by jshirk

    Water is life’s mater and matrix, mother and medium. There is no life without water.
    - Albert Szent-Gyorgyi

    Albert and I are on the same page. I think water is incredibly important. More than just being the precursor to the “ice” of an ice breaker, water is life. I’ve identified three key dimensions in my life that revolve around water. Drinking water helps me complete my daily activities. Living water, my faith in God that guides me, and charity: water, an organization that has inspired me to help people gain access to clean water on the other side of the globe. Continue Reading

    5 Reasons Why You Must Tell Stories

    Giving

    [This post is part of a continuing series on getting clean water to developing nations. If you want to be a part of giving this story a happy ending, donate $22 and make my birthday wish come true.] As I scribbled down notes from Scott Harrison’s life story and events leading to the founding of [...]

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    The charity: water Birthday Campaign Q&A

    Giving

    Over the past few days, I’ve encountered a number of questions about my campaign to raise $5,000 for charity: water for my birthday. First, thanks for asking. I’m blessed to know you care. Here are the questions. If you have more, I’d love to answer them. Why? I’d love to be a hipster and just [...]

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    22 Ways to Save $22 [and then Give Clean Water]

    Giving

    If you haven’t seen, I’m hocking my birthday so that people in developing nations can have clean water, and I need your help in building a well. If money is tight, I can totally relate. I thought I’d share some ways you can bootstrap it and save some cash to bring the most basic need to [...]

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    save lives with jshirk [and make him run for it]

    Giving

    To make a long-story short: I’m asking you to donate $22 for my birthday to save lives by providing clean water. If we raise $5,000 by the end of the year, I’ll run a marathon (and you’ll get a shout out on my shirt). To make a short-story long: On November 22, I turn 22, but [...]

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