Methodology

One Question to Instantly Improve All of Your Relationships

During our pre-marital counseling, our pastor shared  a key question that has changed nearly every relationship in my life.

The question is simple.

Am I believing the best about this person?

When someone shows up late to a meeting. When the dishes aren’t done. When the trash smells and hasn’t been taken out. When you haven’t heard from someone in ages. When your emails go without a response for weeks. When something is said that cuts to your core.

It’s incredible what the benefit of the doubt does in a relationship.

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Methodology

10 Best Books I Read in 2012

Reading is one of my favorite ways to spend my free time. One of my least favorite things is making it partially through a book not worth finishing. Here are two handfuls of books worth finishing in 2013.

10. More Than Enough by Dave RamseyMore than Enough - Dave Ramsey

I’m a self-diagnosed Dave-oholic. The principles Dave teaches in his courses, books and radio program are spot on. This is one of his shorter books, but it’s still chock full of lots of solid principles on money management. His philosophy, managing money God’s way, will flip your financial world right-side up.

9. Steve Jobs by Walter Isaacson

Steve Jobs by Walter Isaacson

Clocking in at 650+ pages, this monster will take some time to sift through. If you’re an Apple lover, you’llenjoy hearing stories of how your favorite products came to be and cringe as you hear how Jobs manipulated people, viewed reality through a distorted lens and tyrannically refused anything less than perfection from everyone around him. His quotes on faith broke my heart, but it’s a great picture inside the mind of a man who changed the world.

8. Knowledge of the Holy by A.W. Tozertozer knowledge of the holy

The shortest piece on the list, and the most bang for your buck. It amazed me how succinctly and precisely Tozer laid out God’s attributes and clearly painted a picture of the invisible God. It stirred my love for the Lord big time.

7. The Finishers by Roger Hershey

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With every page, I felt like Roger was telling me story after story of how to walk with Jesus. It inspired me to live my life boldly for the Lord to do whatever it took to finish the great commission in this generation, and to live a life that was foolish apart from Christ.

6. What is the Mission of the Church? by Kevin DeYoung and Greg Gilbert

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A wonderful introduction to what the Church (with a big C) is aiming for and how a church (with a little c) can carry out what Jesus has called us to. A well-researched and well-argued case for what God expects of His people.

5. The Explicit Gospel by Matt Chandler

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Chandler’s voice comes through loud and clear, and it reads in some ways like you’re listening to a book full of his sermons. I enjoy his humor and wit, but others have mentioned the book could be cut in half if he would have cut to the chase. The main message is something all Christians need to remember: don’t take clearly spelling out the gospel for granted.

4. Surprised by Hope by N.T. Wright

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Wright is captivating. I couldn’t wait to open up another book by him. Surprised by Hope is all about the resurrection and what that means for our lives. He’ll remind you why Paul says the Christian faith hinges on the resurrection and assure you God is making all things new.

3. Living by the Book by Howard Hendricks

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Flat out the best book I’ve come across on studying the Bible. Dozens of different methods, opportunities to try them out on a number of suggested passages, and lots of acronyms and alliterations to help you remember them. A great resource to return to when you want to really dig into the Word.

2. Money, Possessions and Eternity by Randy Alcorn

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Nearly exhaustive on the topic of Christian stewardship–one of my favorite topics. Alcorn walks through everything from income to budgets to leaving inheritances. He will undoubtedly challenge some of your current thinking and convictions. He’s unashamed in his approach and isn’t afraid to lay out what he believes God expects of Christians. Challenging, invigorating and recommended for everyone who wants God to manage their pocket book.

1. Knowing God by J.I. Packer

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Mind blowing. Packer so clearly and concisely makes a case for every chapter, and it’s hard to walk away disagreeing with him because he’s biblically backed up every word. The chapter on adoption into God’s family is worth the price on its own. I’m fairly certain I drained an entire pen underlining this classic work. I can’t believe I didn’t read it sooner and I can’t wait to revisit it again. Please, please read this, mediate on it, and let it expand your view of God.

Question: What were your favorite reads of 2012?

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Technology

The Best Darn Apps Around, Vol. 1

Some say clothes make the man. I say apps make the phone.

If you don’t have an iPod, iPhone, or iPad, you’ve effectively rejected consumerism or you’ve just spent your money on the wrong technology. [Totally kidding, but by now you’re offended and the rest of this post wouldn’t be helpful for you anyway.]

I love good apps, and as my closest companions know, I’m evangelistic about products and services I love, so it’s my pleasure to present to you…

Jordan Shirkman’s Best Darn Apps Around, Vol. I

Tweetbot ($2.99) – My most used app. I read nearly every tweet (which is a problem, I know), mostly because Tweetbot is beautiful, intuitive, and feature rich. I hate reading tweets on the Twitter website (#firstworldproblems, I know) because it lacks the features Tweetbot has. Swipe right for a conversation view if the tweet is a reply to someone, swipe left to see any replies to that tweet. Push notifications, profile editing, change lists easily,  and perhaps most importantly, awesome sound effects. You have to buy a separate version for the iPad and iPhone, so it’d set you back $5.98 for both, but it’s totally worth it.

Flipboard (Free) – Flipboard syncs with your RSS reader, Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, and tons of other websites and magazines. It’s great on the iPad, and just as good on the iPhone. It makes reading your friends boring status updates look pretty.

Fighter Verse ($2.99) – Niki and I have been memorizing scripture together, and this app will pay eternal dividends for the $3 investment. It has a weekly plan that gives you a new verse to memorize, you can add your own verses, it has quizzes for memorization, and you can even set your lock screen as the verse your working on memorizing. Oh, and John Piper uses it.

ESV Bible (Free) – Clean, simple, and a great interface. Search for passages, highlight, favorite, and share verses. It’s my go-to Bible app.

Wunderlist (Free) – Everyone needs a task manager, right? I use Wunderlist because it syncs to a web-version and desktop version (although the syncing is quite slow, so make sure you give it time to upload before you quit the app). You can star the most important tasks, set due dates, and create different lists.

Readability (Free) – I was a serious Instapaper fan (and Instapaper [$4.99] still has the edge in saving articles faster and more effectively and deserves a mention here), but Readability is a beauty when it comes to article saving apps. Tweetbot has Readability (and Instapaper) integration, so I can quickly save articles to read later, ad free. You can then archive or delete the articles you’ve read, and star your favorite articles. A number of font options to choose the one that’s easiest on your eyes is what moved me from Instapaper.

iA Writer ($0.99, for a limited time) – A simple, clean, and a non-distracting way to write on your iWhatever. Limited features and no formatting of text so nothing gets in the way of your brain getting text on the screen instead of just worrying about bolding and italicizing it.

Groupshot ($0.99, for a limited time) – This app does the most mindblowingly magical thing I’ve ever seen. Don’t you hate it that even after a few pictures of a group, Uncle George is blinking in the only one where everyone else is looking? This app will merge pictures together and allow you to swap the faces to make sure everyone is smiling. I’ll consider your mind blown.group shot example

Clear Record ($0.99) – The normal voice recorder on the iPhone picks up a TON of background noise, which is pretty sucky if you need a recording that isn’t totally worthless. Clear Record is a voice recording app that packs noise reduction, Dropbox syncing, Wi-Fi and iTunes syncing, file type selection, play speed selection, and the ability to automatically start once you open the app, which is great if you need to record a public talk and want to focus on speaking instead of recording.

Dropbox (Free) – If you’re not using Dropbox, you’re living under a rock or afraid of the cloud. A great desktop app that syncs your files online, and gives you access through the slick iPhone and iPad app. Save your precious storage space and leave your documents online in the mystical cloud.

Amazon Mobile (Free) – Lookup prices on Amazon by scanning bar codes or typing in your search, then add to your cart and check out. Boom. That. just. happened. You can’t buy Kindle books from it thanks to Apple’s restrictions, but you can buy everything else Amazon has to offer. It’s my go-to app for checking book prices.

Evernote (Free) – Store images, text, ideas, and files for easy lookup and reference. Syncs with a desktop app, and I’m beginning to use it more and more for storing addresses, numbers, and ideas by just taking a picture of something. It has handwriting recognition too, so that page of notes you just wrote doesn’t need to be transcribed, Evernote will make it searchable for you.

Chipotle (Free) –

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Order your burrito bowl, pay in the app, and walk to the front of that monster lunch line and pick up your burrito that literally has your name written on it. Then, they call and ask how things went and occasionally stores give you free burritos for being frequent customers (they once wrote welcome back on my bag after I hadn’t ordered in a while, and I can prove it). Awesome.

 

Jetpack Joyride (Free) – The only game that made the cut, but man, is it sick. You control a guy wearing a jetpack and you can buy a piggybank jetpack that propels you with money. Addicting in every way.

Desiring God (Free) – John Piper’s ministry is simply tremendous. The DG app has blog posts, sermons, and other resources as well. Piper is the man, and this app looks remarkable on the iPad.

Elevation App (Free) – Last and certainly not least. Another one of my favorite pastors’ ministry apps (and yes, you’re allowed to like both John Piper and Steven Furtick). Watch, listen to or download sermons.

If you purchased every app above, it’d set you back a whopping $9 (or $12 with both Tweetbot versions) + tax. I call that bang for your buck.

What are your favorite apps?

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