Theology

What Impatience Really Is (and Why You Need to Deal with It)

People who do things the wrong way are fools and people who get in my way are even worse.

That’s a nasty thought, but it’s undoubtedly one that crosses my mind more often than I’d care to admit. [It looks worse in text than it does when it runs through my mind, but we all know it’s equally horrifying either way.]

I’ve long-confessed that I’m impatient. My honesty about my lack of patience made my feel ok that I was a ticking time bomb.

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As I reflected back on my time overseas in Slovenia, I realized that one blatant sin that summed up my whole year was impatience.

  • Impatience with students when they didn’t believe the gospel.
  • Impatience with Christian students who didn’t want to grow or share their faith.
  • Impatience with my wife when she didn’t meet unspoken expectations I didn’t even realize I had.
  • Impatience with God when he didn’t answer prayers according to my timing.
  • Impatience with myself when sin continued to creep up or self-improvement didn’t come as quickly as I hoped.

I listened to a sermon that is as old as I am (nearly to the day!) by John Piper entitled, Battling the Unbelief of Impatience.”

The title alone struck me. I had never heard impatience framed that way–not believing faithfully in God.

Here’s a quote from Piper to set the tone.

“Patience in doing the will of God is not an optional Christian virtue because faith is not optional and impatience is the fruit of unbelief. It is no minor skirmish.”

Ouch. Impatience is a big deal. It’s a faith issue. Continue reading

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Theology

The Process for Answering Tough Questions About Christianity

Every day I talk with students who ask nearly impossible questions about Jesus, Christianity and the Bible. I don’t have all the answers (and I never will). Thankfully, that’s not what God requires of Christians to share our faith.

This isn’t a perfect process, but it is a way to equip yourself in answering questions like “How can we trust the Bible?” and “Was Jesus really God?

Instead of answering specific questions, I’d rather share ways to prepare to answer tough questions and pass along a few resources you can start checking out today.

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Theology

How to Do Things You Don’t Want to Do Without Becoming a Legalist

Doing things you don’t want to do (especially if they are good spiritual disciplines) can cause you (or others) to be labeled pharisee.

    Going to church when you’ve had a long weekend and just need to relax.
    Reading your Bible when you don’t want to.
    Stopping halfway through your meal when you realized you didn’t pray to ask the Lord to bless your meal.

Here’s an internal (and sometimes external) dialogue I often have.

“Oh, I completely forgot to pray for my food. I should stop and pray for it. But, I don’t want to be a pharisee and do it just to be religious. That’s true. Should I just keep eating? Should I pray anyway?”

Legalism is dangerous. It’s faux-spirituality focused on doing the right things with the wrong motivation. Faith and legalism are at odds with one another, because legalism is faith in yourself and your own abilities to earn God’s favor.

Jesus called out the Pharisees often throughout the Gospels. They are normally found doing things to the extreme (like tithing on their nutmeg and cinnamon) but they are then found condemning those who don’t do as they do (even if it isn’t required by God).

So, how do we keep from being a pharisee while still striving to please God?

The difference lies in our motivation.

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Theology

How I Meditate on The Word of God Day and Night

One of the most challenging Bible passages to me is in Psalm 1:2. It says:

…his delight is in the law of the Lord,
and on his law he meditates day and night.

I’m deliberate about spending time in God’s Word each morning–a spiritual discipline that’s taken me a long time to develop. I know if I try to tackle my day without feasting on God’s Word, it’s nearly impossible for me to walk in His Spirit. If I go a few days without spending time reading and mediating on the Bible, look out.  At that point, my sin has gravitated to the surface and is bursting out of my skin.

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Something I’ve done a poor job of is spending time mediating on God’s word at night. First, let’s define what mediation is. I love what John Piper says,

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Technology

Best Links of the Week: January 11

Sometimes the Internet features pretty neat things. I sift through all the junk and leave you with the weekly gold, right here. Enjoy.

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charity: water Project Photos and Stories

In November 2010, I started a charity: water project in the hopes of raising $5,000 for clean water. Thanks to the generosity of people who care, (just) over $5,000 was raised. This week I (and many of you) received a report detailing the three projects between Ethiopia and Malawi.

116 donations changed the lives of 534 people.

Here’s a great shot of the plaque on the well in Ethiopia, lest we forget how it all happened. Continue reading

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