Methodology

One Question to Instantly Improve All of Your Relationships

During our pre-marital counseling, our pastor shared  a key question that has changed nearly every relationship in my life.

The question is simple.

Am I believing the best about this person?

When someone shows up late to a meeting. When the dishes aren’t done. When the trash smells and hasn’t been taken out. When you haven’t heard from someone in ages. When your emails go without a response for weeks. When something is said that cuts to your core.

It’s incredible what the benefit of the doubt does in a relationship.

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Technology

A 12-Step Process for Successful Online Fundraising

I recently gave an update on a charity: water project I started in 2010 that raised over $5,000 to help build three wells in Africa.

Some of you may wonder how it happened. Outside of a lot of prayer and generosity, it was a simply telling a compelling story (over and over again) that people wanted to be a part of. Below are the 12 steps I took to create a successful online fundraising campaign.

successful fundraising

Some of these steps may be out of your control, some may need tweaked for your campaign, and some may need thrown out all together. Nonetheless, best of luck on your exciting adventure.  Continue reading

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Technology

The Best Banks in The United States


Unless you’re a caveman, you probably put your money in some type of bank. You may stash your money with a mega-corporate bank (aka The Man). In that case you likely pay fees for your bank to hold onto and useyour money or you jump through hoops to make sure you avoid stupid fees from said institution.

I consider myself a bit of a bank connoisseur. Currently, we have five financial institutions at our disposal, and yes, that is too many. If it wasn’t for my rational wife, we’d have even more because I’m a bank addict (further confirming I’m an absolute nerd).

charles schwab and ally bank

From purely anecdotal evidence, lots of people have banks they are moderately happy or even unhappy with, but they don’t know what their other options are or don’t have time to research new options. Friends, your banking problem is about to get solved.

Things I commonly hear from people with subpar banking experiences or from those rationalizing paying fees to bank:

  • “My faceless, gimmicky, corporate, bloodsucking bank is everywhere, so I can always find an ATM.”
  • “I’ve always had an account there, so it’s easier to stick with them.”
  • “They have good technology.”
  • “I have a credit card with them, so I might as well have my bank with them.” Continue reading
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