Methodology

8 Budgeting Objections Overruled and Body Slammed into Oblivion

The idea of creating a budget turns people into TSA Agents because they are not letting that get through the gates into their life, even with a thorough pat down.

Budgeting carries negative connotations because it is restricting and difficult (like eating healthy food and exercising regularly, another awful thing smart people suggest).

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We don’t like doing hard things. So of course budgeting is something we are absolutely not interested in.

I know a lot of very smart people who seemingly handle their finances well that don’t use a written budget.

They say things like,

“If I had a budget, I’d spend more money than I do now.”

“We’re very frugal and we definitely don’t need a budget to manage our money.”

“A budget is constricting, like an anaconda wrapped around an armadillo.”

I can see where they are coming from. But I disagree for a number of reasons, listed below. As promised, the budgeting myths are body slammed with enough force to put the Kardashian’s on a cash-flow plan.

I feel especially adept at answering these objections because I’ve reasoned with the false logic behind them myself in the past.

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Methodology

A Full-Proof Process to Figure Out What’s Ruining Your Day

I’m a bit of an anomaly. I’m rarely shaken by big life changes or weighty expectations. Things like moving overseas, learning a new language, adapting to a new culture, or leading a team rarely stress me out (not even when they are combined into a life-change cocktail).

But if I spill some milk, break a glass and see a spam email slip through the filter and into my inbox, I’m probably going to lose it.

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I’m not sure why that is. I’m still working on figuring out why I’m fine with major shifts and obstacles but I can’t overcome certain mental blocks a four year old wouldn’t struggle with.

Recently, I came up with a process for identifying the tiny frustrations that lead mental meltdowns for me. It helps me work through why I’m feeling the way I am and how to set things straight.
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